The Impossible Relationship
What is there that is so attractive about achieving the impossible? knowledge that something can never work out or is forbidden only adds to that attraction. We fight wars we know we are destined to lose. We desire relationships and people that are so wrong for us. It is never meant to be, there are too many obstacles, yet the couple is blinded by love. Somehow all the greatest story romances have been impossible relationships. It has become such that a normal functioning relationship between compatable people is not romantic because it lacks the heartache, the struggle and the inevitable defeat. Or perhaps not too inevitable. I will grant you that some rare cases work out.
My only point is sometimes you have to give in to the fact that there is a possiblity that you can loose the war you are waging in order to keep the man you love. I am not anti-love or anti-romance, but sometimes being outside a relationship provides you with the necessary clarity to be judgemental, to be the voice of reason. Maybe you are destined to be together, but if it doesn't work out, be accepting of that as well.
My only point is sometimes you have to give in to the fact that there is a possiblity that you can loose the war you are waging in order to keep the man you love. I am not anti-love or anti-romance, but sometimes being outside a relationship provides you with the necessary clarity to be judgemental, to be the voice of reason. Maybe you are destined to be together, but if it doesn't work out, be accepting of that as well.
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