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The Hopeless Romantics

Are men "really" romantic??
Ok, are SOME men "really" romantic?
No.
I dont think so.
Men don't do (when they do, that is) romantic gestures cause they want to or cause it makes them feel good..they do it to get girls to fall for them.. And if the girl already fell for them, they do it to keep the girl satisfied..
Well, fair enough. Or is it?
When men get flowers.. gifts.. buy you dinner.. do you think they're truley being authentic??
Now I'm NOT saying this for any of the following reasons:
  1. to try to make men truly enjoy romance.. not in their genes.
  2. to make men stop doing romantic gestures...(howa had la2y).

I'm merely stating a reality for those of you who dont know.

Men are attracted to women physically..by sight.

Women are attracted emotionally.. by feeling.

:) that is unfair ladies !!!

--(((((((Are men "really" romantic??
Ok, are SOME men "really" romantic?
No.
I dont think so. )))))))---

take it easy on us !!!!!!!

i think that men and women are both look alike (the same )

there is romantic men,there is romantic women and there isn't too

you may see many lovely roses but without a smell or fregrance !!

why don't you women invite us to dinner or buy us roses !!!
i wont say no !! for the roses :P

cheers !!

Ok, I have to second you Feras (Do i sound like teaming up with the enemy :))

well, truth is..we cant generalize..may be girls are by nature more open when it comes to displaying their affection, (but it is quite true that some gurls are not as well), however, there are some guys where romance runs in their blood ..jsut as gurls.

and yes some guys do romance..coz they love it..and satisfy them...

may be they are few..but i saw them and can assure you of their existence :)

jsut refine your selection process, if u like this type!

neseet...

I love the comic!

el raggel mostafezz awy..hehehe

Alright, I cannot deny the fact that most Men are less romantic than women.
However, that's not always the rule. I had the opposite situation where i played the romantic side, while my X played the absolutely not romantic side of the relationship. and for a while it was completely odd for me. But that's how I am, and that's how she is. I realized - by time - that I am a romantic person. Maybe after writing few posts on my blog, it became very clear, I am romantic, sorry to destroy your conclusions :)

Regarding attraction, I have to disagree with you, both would be initially attracted by sight, and this is definitely normal, because this is the first thing you know about the other person, their appearance. It's up to each one of them how they develop their relationship, emotionally, or physically. Again, dont make a general rule, because i can always give you the opposite example from our true life :)

heya knait tagroba saye2a awee kida illi 7'alitek te3amemy al regala kolohom :)
just kidding :) (try to avoid *ALL* when trying to throwing new theory :P)

and misho had cleared this for me :) thx misho (Thumbs Up) lol mesh kont tegy min badry ya ragel :)

So you've figured it out. Men are not romantic and all the stuff we do to give the impression of being romantic is a fraud we create to get into girls pants and thats it. Men are simple creatures, they have needs, they want to fulfill it so, they put on this charade to lure girls into fulfilling these needs and thats it. We do not believe in romance, at least no guy I know does. It is indeed a Myth and since you yourself said that its in our genes then you should not blame us for the lack of it and start dealing with it realistically.

However, marriage for us is a totally different thing. Women tend to think that marrying the "love of their lives" which is something a man won't understand nor comprehend. For us, marrying for love is marrying for the wrong reason. Aside from my opinion on marriage itself, marriage should be based on such things as tolerance, respect and mutual understanding, if you think about it thoroughly, you'll discover that the decision of choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life with based on these factors is much more better than basing it on love alone, if such thing existed.

by the way, I left the comment under "anonymous" because it gave me an error whenever I tried to post using my real identity

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